Pathological Jealousy
Are you or someone you know experiencing pathological jealousy? This form of jealousy is different from simply envying someone else's good fortune. Pathological envy is an intense conviction that your romantic partner is being unfaithful. This may lead the person to fiercely control their loved one, to the point where they restrict phone calls and forbid them to speak to strangers. Even after they have tightly controlled every aspect of their partner's life, they will still remain convinced that it can still happen.
Does this sound familiar? If you find yourself in a situation that sounds like this one, take comfort in the knowledge that you are not alone. Like many negative emotions, it's best to confront this problem while it is still in its early stages, if possible. If you notice your spouse or partner acting abnormally possessive, confront them about it. Ask them why they feel this way and why they feel the need to control you so much. In bringing the problem into the light in the least confrontational manner possible, you may be able to look into the real reason your romantic partner is displaying signs of pathological jealousy.
If you still want to make your relationship work, it's possible to see a couple's counselor regarding your partner's pathological jealousy. Counselors will be able to provide you with neutral, professional advice on your partner's actions and what the two of you can do to overcome this situation. If you feel your partner's actions are rooted in mental illness, you may want to consider seeing a psychiatrist, as these professionals are able to dispense medicine as well as advice and encouragement.
In addition to seeing an individual counselor or psychiatrist, you may also want to consider group therapy for you or your partner's pathological jealousy. Not only will you be able to vent your troubles, but you will be able to learn and grow from the experiences and epiphanies of the other patients in your group.
Pathological jealousy can have devastating effects on any relationship. In working to help cure you or your partner's irrational anger, anxiety, and depression, you are both doing your part to grow as a devoted couple. However, if you feel your spouse or partner is not improving, you may want to consider ending the relationship. After all, pathological jealousy of this level can result in you being seriously harmed, both physically, mentally, and emotionally.