Humanity
is an element that
enforces love and relationship. Humanity
illustrates humane, and shows qualities of human creation throughout
the course of the lifetime. Humans have mechanisms created inside of
them that compose all the elements that make love grow. The elements of
trust, honesty, hope, dreams, loyalty, faithfulness, self-control,
long-suffering, communication, listen, hear, et cetera makeup a human
being. Compassion, consideration, emotions, thoughts, fantasies, and
strength also compose a human being.
When
a person lacks humane, humanity love and relationships are short-lived,
and rarely does the person live a productive lifestyle.
Humans
come in all forms, and sometimes-mental patterns are off balance due to
mental illnesses, physical ailments, and/or ungodly teachings.
Opinions, theories and philosophy often lead up to problems throughout
human existence simply because everyone thinks they have all the
answers to the questions that promote life.
Persons
with mental illnesses are often left without love, since philosophers
or therapists left the notion in people’s heads that these
people
are not capable of loving someone else. This has proven throughout the
years to be an outright lie, since mental ill people love everyday, and
often seek out true love and provides devotion to their relationships.
Sure, there are few types of people that do not have the ability to
love (or else love the way humanity expects), but these types of people
often have mental illnesses that include dangerous ailments.
Psychopathic
individuals have developed relationships and worked through the
relationships, but still these people often cause harm, or have harmful
intentions. Many believe that psychopathic minds are dangerous minds,
or murderous minds, but this is not true. Thus, theories, opinions and
philosophers have left a trail of broken relationships by inserting
notions into minds around the world.
Down
through the years lack of humanity has lead to failure in love and
relationships. Inhumane acts consist of lacking respect for mates. When
a person fails to respect the mate, the relationship often deteriorates
if the partner fails to learn to respect the right of the other.
Again,
this is where beliefs and standards come in, since stepping on your
mates belief and standards often leads to chaos. The traditions and
basic laws of love and relationships are ever altering, which most
times guides love into the wrong direction. At what time persons are,
give the wrong impression about how love works the minds of humanity
turn into an evolutionary root that leads to nothing. Thus, belief,
traditions, and standards are the root of humankind and when those
roots are altered by influential notions relationships tend to become
frustrating rather than loving.
Many
times a relationship can find resolve in both parties work together to
remove the problems that cause destruction. Jealousy is one of the
leading causes of divorce and separation, yet jealousy is understated
and overstated in most instances. A couple may strike out of jealousy
for various reasons including one partner making more income than the
other partner does. Thus, this is a common problem in the world and
many of the complainers are men.
Men
focus on pride and dignity often, which creates another problem in
relationships and love. When the spouse or partner is not meeting his
demands, chaos and arguments usually develop. Thus, nowadays it takes
two people, or rather four people to make ends meet. Therefore, amount
of income generated in the home should not be a problem, rather a
reward if financial obligations are met.
Other
problems such as lack of performance in love and relationship drain
partners and thus separation and/or divorce often results. When one
partner is not fulfilling his/her obligations, or else using sex as a
weapon to get their way; or else showing lack of interest in the other
partner, failure surely will follow.
Thus,
relationships include giving and taking. When one partner is giving
more than the other is, failure is surely to result. Giving includes
intimacy, caring, sharing, et cetera. When two people share they are
giving the best of each other, thus the relationship often leads to
love. Giving is one of the elements that compose love, yet other
mechanisms are essential to make love last.
