Friends
are a form of relationship
built on different types of love.
When man and woman joins in love and relationship, intimacy labors
throughout the arrangement, however in friendship a different type of
intimacy exists that makes the relationship work. Friendship, as
intimate relationships work with the exception that sex is not in the
arrangement in some instances. Some friends join in friendship and
later commit to sexual relations, thus leading to commitment or else
separation.
Friendships
that are long lasting usually have the ingredients to make the
relationship work. Friends may cause each other agitation, frustration,
or unintentional harm down the road in the relationship, yet the two
will work together to make it work by finding a resolve.
Friendship
is a form of commitment between two or more people, and often friends
join in activities, entertainment, and communication. True friends will
prove true to the end of the relationship. Friends will not interfere
with each other’s life, unless the friend sees the need to
address an issue that is causing the friend harm, or in the making of
causing him/her harm.
True
friends in love and relationships will not hold back any punches when
addressing issues with friends. While the friend will not hold back any
punches, he/she will use consideration of the person’s
feelings
and emotions when addressing issues. Friends have your back, which is a
symbol of love displayed on their part, and friends that endure
throughout the trials and tribulations of the relationship, show love
since long-suffering and self-control are visual.
Friends
in love and relationship may fight at times, but both parties will
apologize for his/her part that instigated the disagreement. Friends
will tell you when you are wrong, thus again not holding back any
punches, while considering you.
Friends
that develop into intimate relationships, often work through the
arrangement regardless of the storms laid on their plates. Friendship
before intimacy is smart, since the two have an overview of the others
behaviors, habits, personality, skills, et cetera.
Love
and relationships built on true friendship will last through habits,
behaviors, personality flaws, et cetera, providing violence or repeated
actions of inconsideration and disrespect is ongoing.
When
mates disrespect each other, or show inconsideration ongoing, thus, the
relationship will fail, since friendship, love and elements that
compose love are lacking.
Disrespect
expands further than most people think. Thus, learning beliefs,
traditions, and standards is smart when considering love and
relationships. Thus, starting out as friends will help you see through
the person’s behaviors, habits and personality, what makes
him or
her up as a person. The makeup of the person will include an insight of
standards, traditions, and beliefs.
Beliefs
are tricky, since nowadays standards are lower than ever, thus beliefs
are often overlying inconsistency and dishonesty. When a person has
lack of evidence to support their beliefs, thus faulty thinking is
underlying the mind.
Beliefs
are
either concrete or superficial. To convince me that a person is worth
my time, the person better have some realness in light. Thus,
superficial beliefs rarely stand firm, thus the person is obviously
heading in the wrong direction, and thus the relationship may or may
not last.
As you can see,
what
determines the outlook of friendship, love and relationships depends on
the makeup of the persons involved?
What
about compatibility, where does it play in friendship, love and
relationships…
Compatibility
by definition means to exist together in agreement. When two people
join in agreement the relationship may or may not last, since down the
road can you determine if one person’s mind will change?
People
live life and gain experience and wisdom along the path, thus a shallow
minded person might stumble upon information that changes his/her mind
forever.
Thus,
incompatibility
according to definition means to cause a disturbance by inconvenience
and distress. While the definition illustrates a failure down the road,
many relationships built on incompatibility proved enduring, since down
the road minds changed when facts were gathered leading to convictions.
Thus, conviction is
devastating.
When you have truth, you have conviction, thus no one can argue with
you…therefore, relationships can last in friendship and in
love
and relationships.
